WOMEN
EMPOWERMENT IN INDIA
Women
empowerment is a much chanted slogan in India by political parties and social
groups but the real causes and underlying issues are rarely addressed. This
sensitive issue encompasses two elements one revolves around the legal
framework or laws initiated for this purpose and the second is about social
mindsets. Neither can be denied in importance but it is my understanding that
the social and psychological aspects need to be resolved primarily in order to
actually empower women in India.
Years
ago under the British rule the cursed ritual of ‘sati’ was abolished and
subsequently women were at least spared the misery of being burned alive with
their deceased husband. This is one of the few British legacies that we can
certainly be proud of. But if some people mistakenly assumed that this would
begin a chain reaction of women empowerment in India; they were never more
wrong. Reverting back to my own analysis that empowerment of women in India is
more of a social issue than a legal one; the reasons are simple whenever women
are considered the mindset of people living in India is a ‘unique’ one.
The
general feeling or notion is that women are one step below men in the
‘hierarchical order’ of living things. Therefore how can they have equal rights
with men? This particular thought is responsible for women being deprived of
their rights. However when it comes to obligations they are numerous that must
be ‘bestowed’ upon them.
They must be a loving and faithful wife, an ideal
mother, a caring sister, an obedient daughter in law and a helping hand for all
those living under one roof. While the ‘woman’ is busy in performing all such
duties she is denied the right to take part in any major financial or social or
even personal decisions. If she wishes to get dressed in a red sari with her
hair cascading over her shoulders; a big no can come from her in laws and she
must abide by that declaration.
So if you are still not getting at what I am
trying to direct you to; let me put it in the simplest words that I can think
of, “women are natural followers who cannot be allowed the liberty to take
decisions even in matters that pertain to their own self”. So forget the ‘big
words’ about liberating women or ‘women rights’ when the same people chanting
these lines are unable to empower women in matters related to their own
household.
If
we really want to empower women, we will have to begin in our own homes; isn’t
it said ‘charity begins at home’, so why are we forgetting that every journey
starts with a small step. We want to empower women in India than they must be
given the freedom to take their decisions on their own starting from our own
homes.
If my sister wishes to study engineering or pursue a job of her own
liking I should ‘empower’ her to take that decision on her own and without any
compulsion. The women empowerment in India can become a reality only if we
start by changing our own mindsets and giving them the liberty to do what they
wish to do.
Changing a mind set of an entire nation is not an easy undertaking but one that, I agree, must be taken if women are to be afforded true equal rights with men in India. Perhaps the woman could start by teaching their sons (unobtrusively of course)that women are every bit as intelligent as their male counterparts. Men will have to take the initiative on this one from a legal standpoint from what you are saying.
ReplyDeleteHave you ever heard the saying,.. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
ReplyDeleteIt is so hard to make people change their beliefs.
I find it intriguing that you are so intune with your countries history and stuff. I know some things about the US but to be honest I am not a history buff so I probably no nowhere near what I need to know.
ReplyDeleteSuch a powerfully written and important post. Thank you so much for writing it :)
ReplyDeleteReally thought provoking post - it often amazes me how different women are seen across the world.
ReplyDeleteGood luck to all of the women in India in finding the strength and stamina to pursue your dreams and be treated as equals. I know it takes a lot more than luck.
ReplyDeleteI didn't know that at one time women were buried alive when their husbands passed. I agree with you, we must all support our sisters and encourage them no matter where we live.
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